Before You Love Me


Before you love me you should know that I’m not very confident and I can be a bit clingy. I’ll probably always wonder what you’re doing. Before you love me you should know that I don’t often stress but when I do I have mini meltdowns. I’ll need you to tell me that I’m not being crazy because not everyone can calm me down. You should know how I like my tea and you’ll get brownie points if you offer to make it for me. You should know that when I see myself I see flaws. I need someone to make me forget about them or make me see the positives instead of negatives. Before you love me you should know that I am a hopeless romantic and I definitely want the fairy tale.

But if you can get past that then you should know that I love hard. I’ll be there at any time of the day or night. I’ll never be too busy to listen to you, even if you think you’re being silly. You should know that I bake, a lot, and I’ll bring you, and your family, loads of goodies. Even though romantic movies are beautiful, I’ll gladly watch scary or action movies with you. Scary movies are just the best to be honest! You should also know that I’ll send you random texts, just telling you how much you mean to me or to enjoy your day. You’ll also be falling in love with the way my eyes will light up when I talk about you, and how I’ll be proud to tell people that you’re mine.

Before you fall in love me I want to tell you this. Please fall in love with all of me, good or bad, or don’t fall at all.



  1. November 28, 2016 / 17:09

    This is really cute and I love how honest it is
    I think every girl secretly wants “the fairytale”

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 28, 2016 / 17:25

      Thank you so much, love x

  2. November 28, 2016 / 20:01

    This post was just lovely and I definitely agree with the cups of tea xx

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 29, 2016 / 14:35

      Thank you so much, Holly! x

  3. November 28, 2016 / 20:03

    This was such a lovely post, so well written and so intriguing. I think having someone show you the positives about the things you deem as negative is very important. The people we fall in love with technically are not ‘perfect’ but we learn to love what they deem their imperfections <3 xx

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 29, 2016 / 14:36

      Thank you so much for such a lovely comment, Sophie! x

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 29, 2016 / 14:36

      Thank you! 🙂 x

  4. November 29, 2016 / 15:00

    I love this, so well written! Lately, all I seem to see is negativity about love and being love, falling in love etc, but this is beautiful and I definitely relate to everything you’re saying ❤️

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 29, 2016 / 15:12

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate your lovely comment x

  5. November 29, 2016 / 16:58

    I love how honest this post is! And I’m with you on the tea, the way to my heart is a amazing cup of tea (and cake..) but this post is really well written! xx

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      November 30, 2016 / 14:29

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate the kind comment x

    • Kirsty Hoggons
      December 4, 2016 / 09:35

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment! I really appreciate it x

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